Sacred Sexuality as a Path to Empowerment: A Conversation with Kiki Jane

In this deeply personal and transformative conversation, Steve sits down with tantric teacher and erotic empowerment guide Kiki Jane to explore how sacred sexuality isn’t just a personal awakening—it has the potential to reshape culture, recalibrate society, and awaken humanity on a mass level. Through healing, embodiment, and the reclamation of sexual energy, this dialogue explores how empowerment begins in the body and ripples out into the collective. This Heart Initiation podcast was recorded in 2019 and is stored in our YouTube archives:

From Dissociation to Devotion: Kiki’s Journey into Tantra

Kiki’s journey into sacred sexuality wasn’t planned. It arrived like most initiations do—through a doorway of pain. Like many of us, she had spent years following cultural scripts about sex, intimacy, and femininity—only to find herself feeling more depleted than fulfilled.

She describes growing up in the “Barbie and Spice Girl generation,” inheriting a narrow version of what it meant to be a sexual woman. Her encounters were plentiful, but not nourishing. That changed when a partner handed her Sex to Super Consciousness by Osho. “Within reading the first page,” she says, “I was in tears.”

From there, the journey took her into deep tantric practices, self-pleasure rituals, and eventually the confrontation of childhood sexual trauma. Tantra became not just a healing tool, but a revolution—a reclamation of body, voice, and soul.

The Role of Sacred Sexuality in Cultural Recalibration

Kiki’s mission isn’t just to teach techniques. It’s to dismantle the systems—personal and political—that keep people disconnected from their bodies.

“We’re living in a world starving for connection,” she says. “Look at our political leaders, our celebrities, even our educators. How many of them are truly in their bodies? How many breathe deeply into their bellies? We’ve been systematically denied access to the fullness of our sexuality—and with it, the fullness of our humanity.”

This denial isn’t accidental. Religious oppression, shame-based conditioning, and cultural taboos have narrowed the human experience to its barest minimum. Sacred sexuality is a way back—not just to pleasure, but to power, presence, and purpose.

Sexual Energy Is Life Energy

One of the core teachings Kiki returns to is that sexual energy is simply life energy. The same force that causes flowers to bloom or stars to be born pulses through our genitals. But when we’re severed from that energy, we’re severed from creation itself.

“It’s not about orgasms or acrobatics,” she explains. “It’s about feeling alive. It’s about coming home to the power that moves through you.”

For her, sacred sexuality is about embodiment—landing fully in your skin. It’s about being present enough to feel, grounded enough to express, and empowered enough to advocate for your pleasure.

The Power of Responsibility & Self-Awareness

Steve echoes this sentiment from his own path. “If you want to be a leader, a creator, a force for good in the world—start by taking responsibility for your own pleasure.”

This doesn’t just mean better sex. It means better communication. Better boundaries. A clearer emotional compass. It’s the difference between reacting from fear and responding from empowerment.

Kiki adds, “When we don’t know how to advocate for what we want in bed, we likely don’t know how to advocate for what we want in life.”

Trauma, Shame & the Path to Healing

Of course, talking about empowerment also means facing what blocks it: shame and trauma. Kiki is compassionate but unflinching here.

“Shame is one of the lowest frequencies we can live in. And when you’ve been told your pleasure is sinful or your body is dirty—it can take years to unlearn that.”

Many of her clients have never been asked a simple question: How do you want to be touched?

For some, the answer doesn’t come right away. The nervous system is still frozen. The body is still afraid. That’s why Kiki approaches every session with reverence. Healing begins with safety. Empowerment begins with breath.

The Ritual of Coming Home to Yourself

So what’s the first step?

It’s not complicated. Place your hands on your genitals. Breathe. Let your body know it’s safe to feel.

“That’s where I begin,” Kiki says. “The ritual doesn’t need to be elaborate. Maybe you light a candle. Play a song. Close the curtains. Speak an affirmation. But the essence is safety. Because without that, there’s no awakening.”

She recommends solo cultivation or conscious self-pleasure as a foundation. Explore touch. Notice sensations. Listen to your body’s yes, no, maybe. Over time, what’s numb becomes alive. What’s dormant becomes divine.

Sacred Sexuality as Global Service

As the conversation deepens, Kiki speaks with clarity about why this work matters—globally.

“We’re not just doing this for ourselves,” she says. “We’re doing this for everyone who’s still trapped in shame. Everyone who doesn’t yet know their body is sacred.”

She references Osho’s vision of the “10,000 Buddhas”—a tipping point of awakened individuals who change the vibrational frequency of the Earth.

“When we step into our erotic power, when we reclaim the sacredness of our bodies—we become catalysts. We create ripples. We build a new paradigm.”

Reclaiming Tantra from Corruption

Steve raises an important point: the misuse of tantric teachings.

In recent years, the sacred sexuality space has been rocked by reports of abuse—mostly by male teachers. It’s something that cannot be ignored.

Kiki doesn’t shy away. She encourages people to trust their intuition, do their research, and understand the difference between power and predation.

“Choose teachers who walk the talk,” she advises. “And remember—you don’t need a partner or a guru to start this journey. You only need your breath, your body, and the willingness to remember who you are.”

The Call to Awaken: Final Words

This conversation ends not with a technique, but a call.

A call to take one step today—whether it’s placing your hand on your heart, lighting a candle for your own pleasure, or asking yourself a deeper question: What do I need to feel more alive?

Sacred sexuality isn’t just about sex. It’s about becoming whole. It’s about making love to life itself. And in a world that’s starving for depth, intimacy, and embodiment—that might just be the most radical act of all.

To connect with Kiki Jane, visit Kiki’s instagram here.