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It's OK – you're not the only one who finds it a little awkward.
In fact, having your partner go down on you can be really challenging.
You would think that receiving the delicious pleasure of your partner's tongue on the innermost parts of your delicate folds would be easy, right? But it can actually bring a lot of emotion to the surface. It can trigger insecurities, intense vulnerability, uncomfortableness around receiving and even pressure to perform.
And then sometimes,...
Written by our founder, Steve Burford.
I had a big realization whilst I was making love the other day. I was giving oral sex to my partner and I was noticing how her yoni reacted to my tongue.
A few minutes later she started to lick my forehead (this is something we normally do so I can receive a brain orgasm) and my third eye started to behave exactly like her yoni. It was a big revelation to me!
It was earlier this year that I started to have these types of brain...
Written by Stephen James Burford & Freya Watson
The sexual stereotypes we face every day have a profound impact on our society. From stereotypes about men in relationship to stereotypes of women’s sexuality, these harmful attitudes affect us all. We must scrutinize ourselves to see if we are partaking in the perpetuation of these limiting roles.
These detrimental attitudes are deep-rooted. They begin to form through the eyes of a baby by witnessing the stereotypical...
I am the kind of guy that can be doing nothing and still have an amazing time with somebody (even my imaginary friends). So for me, anything we do on a date can be a blast. I texted this girl to get together yesterday, and while happy to do so, she asks “what are we going to do?” Now there are a billion things we can do, and rather than just pick something out of a magic hat, I felt like approaching the question in a more meaningful way.
What I came up with is just a simple...
Good sex, great sex is the most intimate act between two humans. Rushed sex can become throw away, almost pointless.
People can become extremely judgmental if you sleep with too many people, women are especially judged about this. Many cultures say that if you sleep with one guy 1000 times over five years that is better than sleeping with 50 guys, but it is still ten times each over the same period. You had half the amount of sex, but because you slept with 49 more guys...
Evolutionary sex is without a doubt the most powerful sex I have had in my entire life. This mind-blowing sex transcends a normal act between the sheets. Its effects are felt long after the arousal ends by rippling pleasure out into the world.
Foreplay begins with me coming into balance within.
When I pick my partner from a balanced place, I choose balance in my mate, and as a result I help restore balance in my world. This balance pleasures not only me, but many...
The doubt is probably seeping through your mind as you read the title of this article, “How many magic mushrooms did he take before he did this?” Fair question, even one of my friends has asked me the same thing! The answer is zero. This was all done with no other medicines or substances.
How did this happen? Well, I was on a body de-armouring retreat and it all went down there.
What is de-armouring?
A duck, deer, horse, antelope, or zebra (and other animals) all have...
“Males do not represent two discrete populations, heterosexual and homosexual. The world is not to be divided into sheep and goats. Nature rarely deals with discrete categories… the living world is a continuum in each and every one of its aspects.”
—Kinsey et al (circa 1948) p 639
That’s Alfred Kinsey, famed creator of the Kinsey Scale. A measure of sexual orientation, and yes, you read that date correctly—1948! If someone who was born in the 1800s...
We are Source. But we are also bodies. That’s what it is to be a human being.
Every one of us is perfection within imperfection. Non-physical within physical. Purity (in the truest meaning of the word) within differentiation.
We share an essence, but yet we are each exquisitely unique in every way. We experience existence as individuals — meaning we exist entirely in relation to one another. And yet we are, by nature, powerfully drawn to each other by means of a shared...