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Elaine's journey has involved a lifelong fascination and inquiry into meditation, sexuality, and the spirit/soul realms.

She is a group facilitator for Shamanic, Tantra, and Somatic Sexology-based events. Elaine is a member of the Lead Faculty team for The International School of Temple Arts (ISTA) as well as a Shamanic Breathwork facilitator and bodyworker.

Elaine also teaches on our main Heart Initiation Academy. You can find out more about our full academy course. Discover more...

When people start to talk about female sexuality, they often give great attention to the genital area, or whether the woman reaches orgasm, if at all. It is surprising how many women have problems with their sexuality.

But because it is a subject about which women often have no one to talk to, they feel that they are alone in this problem.

There is often little information about sexuality as we grow up, so must become aware of the fact that through the breasts we can not only find...

Clitoral Fact 1.

There are over 8,000 nerve endings in the clitoris! Whoever built it, literally built it for pleasure. The clit has more than double the number of nerve endings in the tip of the penis.

Clitoral Fact 2.

The clitoris has a shaft; just like the penis. The shaft connects to the head of the clitoris. Straddle your partner and get to know this part of her. You’ll need to tease it out of her, start very lightly on the head of the clitoris until it is reaching out to...

Acupressure can heighten your sexuality and be satisfying and rewarding in many different ways. This article will introduce you to the depths of traditional Chinese sexuality and how to stimulate acupressure points to build sexual energy, relieve stress and enhance intimacy. We’ll consider ways to make acupressure experiences intimate. Finally, this article presents potent points in the lower back for nurturing sexual energy.

Acupressure & Sexuality

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First of all, let’s start changing the name of ‘blow job’ to ‘cock workship’ or something similar. It’s not a job. It’s an act of prayer and reverence. For those who want to experience the other, go to our other oral guide - how to eat pussy.

In this interview with Ella, we speak about how she learned her expertise on how to give a blowjob that blows his mind.

Ella, tell us about your relationship and how porn helped you gain...

In this article on the art of pussy eating we interview our lesbian friend, Lizzie, about how to eat pussy like a king (or queen!) 

Lizzie, is there more than one way how to do it?

Personally, I don’t think so. I find oral the quickest way to make a girl climax, so that’s why I do it!

Okay… let’s go through it step by step…how do you eat pussy like a king (or queen)?

Step One. How To Eat Pussy.

Sweet cunnilingus. How I love it to worship her pussy....

Men are addicted to ejaculation and they don’t even know it. We haven’t been educated about what might help us grow as a species.

“The world would be a happier place if men ejaculated less and women orgasmed more”.

In this article, we look at how to stop ejaculating.

We feel it is very important for men to have a rite of passage into adulthood. A lot of young men don’t have rites of passage anymore. Women, no matter where they are in the world, have a...