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In the last couple of months, I have been diving deep into a new way of relating. This new way of relating involves connecting to the mystery of relating. To the not knowing, to the creative power that lies underneath all that manifests in our 3D reality. This new connection to the mystery of relating has given me a huge blessing in the form of an amazing new lover. She embodies Aphrodite and she shares her energy abundantly with me. I am so grateful!

As we lay...

Clitoral Fact 1.

There are over 8,000 nerve endings in the clitoris! Whoever built it, literally built it for pleasure. The clit has more than double the number of nerve endings in the tip of the penis.

Clitoral Fact 2.

The clitoris has a shaft; just like the penis. The shaft connects to the head of the clitoris. Straddle your partner and get to know this part of her. You’ll need to tease it out of her, start very lightly on the head of the clitoris until it is reaching out to...

Sadly, so many women lose their sexual appetite for reasons too long to mention. The medical industry is shamelessly banking in on “Women’s Sexual Dysfunction”, which is a total sham if you ask me. Short of having a genuine medical issue, there is no such thing as women’s sexual dysfunction.

The biggest thing standing in the way of the long lost days of wet, juicy, fantasy-filled, steamy moments in a woman’s body is a long list of unexpressed emotion,...

At some point, we will feel ready to create a partnership in our lives. When meeting a potential candidate, there are questions we should ask ourselves. Does our potential partner resonate with us? Does she resonate more than just sexually? Is there a deeper connection? Do we like how she shows up? Does she align with our values? And more importantly, does she align with our core values? Core values are values that are non-negotiable. Core values are those values that, if compromised,...

A question from an anonymous reader:

How do you know when a relationship is over? I feel like I am growing and evolving faster than my partner and this is causing problems, and I read somewhere, "Have the courage to let go of people who don't grow with you." I do love my partner very much but our paces seem to be different, and I just don’t know when relationships are supposed to end. Can you help?

Dear reader,

It is challenging to know when a...

For so many of us, relationships are things we stumble into, and find ourselves deeply involved in, before realising that they are not quite what we want. Then we either cut and run, or put up and shut up - either blaming the other for the relationship not working or blaming ourselves.

But it’s not the searching for a relationship that delivers or otherwise - it’s what we believe. If we believe it’s easy to find a relationship, we’ll find one easily. If we...

Do you need some inspiration for sex positions? Have a look at these if you are feeling like an animal. There are different energies that we can bring into the bedroom. The most common are the animal and the spiritual/tantric lover. It isn't a good idea to be animalistic all the time in the bedroom but sometimes it is really awesome!

Don't forget that these animalistic positions should be done with love and consciousness, as well as some consensual ass slapping and hair...

“When we came into these dimensions, we came from realms of spirit, a place where we were divine beings. The truth is we never stopped being divine beings!"

8 things your soul came here to experience:

1. To Feel What It Is Like Not To Be Love & Be Loved.

Your soul came here to experience a journey that was specifically designed to show you what love is not.

If heaviness is what you came here to experience, because you couldn't have it 'up there' then...

In many respects, a relationship is a "path", or "yoga", a path of self-knowledge. It is a practice, similar to other paths of self-knowledge such as meditation, prayer or martial arts. Like meditation, prayer, or martial arts, the final destination of the path of relationship is a place within us. The final destination is who we become by travelling this path. These paths, these yogas, when well-travelled, take us home to ourselves; they lead to our healing. We are the destination of...

It’s now the men’s turn to find out what how to be better in bed for her after we discovered how to be better in bed for him. We asked some top tantrikas, love journalists and some ‘regular’ women how to be better in bed. Here is what they said:

Elaine Young, 41 Elaine is a Shamanic Breathwork Facilitator and also a Sexuality, Tantra & Bodywork Coach based in London. Find her at www.thetantricshaman.com.

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