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The doubt is probably seeping through your mind as you read the title of this article, “How many magic mushrooms did he take before he did this?” Fair question, even one of my friends has asked me the same thing! The answer is zero. This was all done with no other medicines or substances.

How did this happen? Well, I was on a body de-armouring retreat and it all went down there. 

What is de-armouring?

A duck, deer, horse, antelope, or zebra (and other animals) all have...

“Males do not represent two discrete populations, heterosexual and homosexual. The world is not to be divided into sheep and goats. Nature rarely deals with discrete categories… the living world is a continuum in each and every one of its aspects.”

—Kinsey et al (circa 1948) p 639

That’s Alfred Kinsey, famed creator of the Kinsey Scale. A measure of sexual orientation, and yes, you read that date correctly—1948! If someone who was born in the 1800s...

When people start to talk about female sexuality, they often give great attention to the genital area, or whether the woman reaches orgasm, if at all. It is surprising how many women have problems with their sexuality.

But because it is a subject about which women often have no one to talk to, they feel that they are alone in this problem.

There is often little information about sexuality as we grow up, so must become aware of the fact that through the breasts we can not only find...

We are Source. But we are also bodies. That’s what it is to be a human being.

Every one of us is perfection within imperfection. Non-physical within physical. Purity (in the truest meaning of the word) within differentiation.

We share an essence, but yet we are each exquisitely unique in every way. We experience existence as individuals — meaning we exist entirely in relation to one another. And yet we are, by nature, powerfully drawn to each other by means of a shared...

Often young males were in their teens, they started to associate ‘being cool’ with getting laid. Haven’t lost your virginity? Uh oh… you’re not in the cool group. Getting laid was the coolest thing one could do and it seemed as if it was the only way to transform from worthless to worthy. What an unfortunate situation to grow up with that peer pressure and know nothing about intimacy at that point. Even more debilitating to that is the...

In this podcast, we speak to Rory Kilmartin about his research and discovery of new archetypal power dynamics that exist in all of relating. This conversation will open your mind and heart to what archetype you have been operating under for your whole life.

For more from Rory, visit his website

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His new book is called, My Ecstatic Rebirth: The 10 Keys To Unleash Your Power, Pleasure & Purpose!

This is also available on Audible...

Most men are addicted to ejaculation and they don’t even know it. The world would be a happier place if men ejaculated less and everyone had full-body orgasms together. 

We feel it is very important for men to have a rite of passage into adulthood. The majority of young men don’t have rites of passage anymore. Women, no matter where they live, have a rite of passage into adulthood. It happens upon them through their first menstruation. However, men...

In the last couple of months, I have been diving deep into a new way of relating. This new way of relating involves connecting to the mystery of relating. To the not knowing, to the creative power that lies underneath all that manifests in our 3D reality. This new connection to the mystery of relating has given me a huge blessing in the form of an amazing new lover. She embodies Aphrodite and she shares her energy abundantly with me. I am so grateful!

As we lay...

1). Am I in a rush? 

Do I feel anxious? For example, are you thinking, “If we don’t commit I might lose this person or not get what I want?” If you are thinking this, slow down! Love and especially unconditional love has infinite patience.

2). Do we have the same core values? 

Core values are fundamental beliefs, highest priorities, ideas about money and spending, fundamental driving forces. Do you ultimately want the same things from life? Can you...

Clitoral Fact 1.

There are over 8,000 nerve endings in the clitoris! Whoever built it, literally built it for pleasure. The clit has more than double the number of nerve endings in the tip of the penis.

Clitoral Fact 2.

The clitoris has a shaft; just like the penis. The shaft connects to the head of the clitoris. Straddle your partner and get to know this part of her. You’ll need to tease it out of her, start very lightly on the head of the clitoris until it is reaching out to...